Insightful Intrigue
I have always wondered why, and how a man can cheat on his significant other. In this women have always been easier to understand; at least to me. In Love, a woman will only cheat if she feels her man no longer loves her; that is to say, to my knowledge. This often happens when the "romance dies". This often happens because the woman needs romance to feel needed and wanted, yet does she do anything to make her man feel the same?
With out proper balance things begin to fall, and crumble. In-case you think that relying on him financially or emotionally is the way to make him feel this; your wrong. Yes for some men that will give them a feeling of power; however if they are looking for love, they will need something else. Allowing your man to take care of the finances may be something he would like to do to please you, or make things easier for you, but it will not make him feel like you need him.
As quoted in my other blog "mystery and intrigue are to a man as Romance is to a woman". A man needs to feel the way he does when he is chasing you. That feeling of mystery and intrigue. A woman often commits out of romantic attraction. For a man romance is not "roses and chocolates". When a man and woman commit it is often desired that the man will continue romance her and the woman will... will what? Have sex with him? RIGHT!
As if he can't get that some where else.
IF all a woman needed to do was have sex with him, we would have more committed men; and I don't mean to an asylum. A man needs to "feel the chase" once in a while, the same way a woman needs to feel romanced. The mystery the chase the intrigue its a "mans' " romance. To any woman who takes the time to read this, if your man is not romancing you, try making him chase you once in a while and maybe he will feel the need to romance you more often.
Remember, sex may be only a street corner away, but what he really needs can only come from a relation ship, weather that is from you or someone else is ;in part; your choice.
With out proper balance things begin to fall, and crumble. In-case you think that relying on him financially or emotionally is the way to make him feel this; your wrong. Yes for some men that will give them a feeling of power; however if they are looking for love, they will need something else. Allowing your man to take care of the finances may be something he would like to do to please you, or make things easier for you, but it will not make him feel like you need him.
As quoted in my other blog "mystery and intrigue are to a man as Romance is to a woman". A man needs to feel the way he does when he is chasing you. That feeling of mystery and intrigue. A woman often commits out of romantic attraction. For a man romance is not "roses and chocolates". When a man and woman commit it is often desired that the man will continue romance her and the woman will... will what? Have sex with him? RIGHT!
As if he can't get that some where else.
IF all a woman needed to do was have sex with him, we would have more committed men; and I don't mean to an asylum. A man needs to "feel the chase" once in a while, the same way a woman needs to feel romanced. The mystery the chase the intrigue its a "mans' " romance. To any woman who takes the time to read this, if your man is not romancing you, try making him chase you once in a while and maybe he will feel the need to romance you more often.
Remember, sex may be only a street corner away, but what he really needs can only come from a relation ship, weather that is from you or someone else is ;in part; your choice.
2 Comments:
Hey you, just dropping in to say I do read this once in a while. I find it's always nice to know you're not just spouting off to yourself out here in the vastness.
Thank you. Its good to see that im not 100% off base. I only say that cause I know you would tell me if I was ;) lol
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